The F*ck Yes Life: It’s Not About Perfect Circumstances, It’s About Choosing YOU
Let’s get one thing straight right now:
The Fck Yes Life* isn’t some perfect, Instagram-filtered fantasy you stumble upon when your world is flawless, your relationships are healed, and your to-do list is wiped clean.
It’s not about waiting for the “right time,” the “right mood,” or the “right energy.”
Nope.
The F*ck Yes Life is a decision.
A daily, sometimes hard, always fierce choice.
A commitment to how you show up, no matter what’s swirling around you…no matter how messy, painful, or uncertain things feel.
I’ve made that choice.
And sometimes, it’s been in my darkest moments.
I remember it like it was yesterday sitting in a hospital room during my dad’s final days.
The air was thick with grief, silence heavy with the weight of impending loss. My heart shattered and at the same time, something inside me anchored.
I chose unconditional love.
I chose to feel the memories, the laughter, the warmth we shared, not the despair. Because I knew, deep down, he’d want that. (Bill always lived fully — #livelifelikeBill)
Did I still feel pain? Hell yes.
But pain and choice can coexist.
I chose how to experience that pain.
That moment changed me.
Because it reminded me we can’t control what happens outside of us, but we can control how we meet it.
We can regulate our nervous systems.
We can root deep in ourselves.
We can rise, even when the world feels like it’s crumbling.
That’s not just me talking.
There’s a line from The Choice by Edith Eva Eger a Holocaust survivor who lost everything but found something no one could take away:
“We don’t know where we’re going, we don’t know what’s going to happen, but no one can take away from you what you put in your own mind.”
That hit me like a lightning bolt.
No matter how brutal life gets your inner world is yours.
Yours to protect, nurture, and reclaim.
So here’s the truth you need to hear:
You don’t have to wait for your business to explode with success.
Success is inevitable when you decide to embody it right now.
You don’t have to wait for the “right” partner, for your inner child to “heal,” or for the universe to give you a green light.
You can wake up and choose who you’re going to be today.
Identity comes first.
But most women?
They don’t do this.
They hope for good moods.
They hope today won’t trigger their past.
They hope motivation will magically appear.
They hope something outside themselves will give them permission to feel joy.
Here’s the reality:
You don’t need permission.
You need embodiment.
You need tools to regulate your nervous system.
You need the inner power to say, “F*ck yes, I get to feel joy today. Even now. Even here.”
And that’s why I created:
A 21-day voice note journey designed to help you stop waiting and start choosing.
Daily audios to regulate, activate, and embody the powerful woman you already are.
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Because that’s when the real magic happens.